The Person Centered Journal , Volume 2, Issue 1, 1995

Printed in the U.S.A. All rights reserved.

 

THE PERSON IN THE PSYCHOTHERAPIST


 

Armin Klein


 

Self-respect is a sin!

In the country where I lived my youth.

Even now, I fear it is a sin against my ancient childhood Gods

To be interested in my Self.

To think of crossing the oceans that surround

My conscious neighborhood.

Voyage across a stormy, frightening sea

To loosen my ways of thinking,

To enter other lands of my feelings; strange, terrifying

Joyful, and always mysteriously familiar.


 

But I cast my mooring lines ashore long ago,

When I chose my profession, my art

. Now, reality appears changed.

(What would the changes have been with other choices?)

This new reality feels so unstable, such a fearful exploration-

And so exciting! So unknown, yet so reminiscent of

My earliest childhood, before I marked out those bounds of

My conscious neighborhood.


 

So, is it not even a greater sin, hubris against the Gods,

To invite other mortal humans on board, to offer even

To be the vessel that loosens their thinking ways and

Enables them to cross their violent seas?

And then to offer a supporting companionship if they wish

To land on their unexplored reaches of feelings?

Their ancient forbidding Gods are so like mine..


 


 


 


 


 

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4 Armin Klein


 


 

I must admit it is a sin of self-respect

Against those worshipped virtues,

Those external authorities and protecting powers

Who give a fantasied meaning and order

To my all-too chaotic existence.

Surely, it is true that I am frightened

When I stay open and explorative, when I choose to ignore

My categories and my judgments.


 


 

But I remember my youthful excitement, as I read of the Renaissance explorers bursting out of medieval piety

And the limited world of obedience to supernatural powers,

Crossing forbidden seas of mind and space,

Claiming the world for mortal humans.

I remember my vicarious thrill as stout Cortez

Stepped off his ship, encased in cuirass. How he must have

Shook-to want that rigid armor! My thrill as he

Pointed his harquebus at strange, yet familiar, other-humans.

Those explorers insisted on armor, guns, and

Imposing their way of life. Yet they were there!

Risking the mix of their Selves with new spirits

And new visions. With new friends and change!


 

How much more thrill it is now to be the vessel that helps explorers

Cross their stormy seas, opening their thinking,

For me to be a companion in their scary and treasure-filled

New world. A companion that knows not the explorers'

New worlds, but only the joy of exploring, and

The fears of my own discoveries.


 

But, indeed, I still lean on my ancient Gods,

They help me with my old neighbors.

And my explorers bring their own ancient Gods on board.

Their Gods and mine are such good friends

That I quake and struggle on our journey.

Especially when my explorer friends stumble, and –

Homesick-vanish, or-panicked-close their armor and

Point their guns at me, saying I am bad company

Or a bad new land, myself, for them.

They must destroy me for their own safety.

I feel so scared, responsible, and sad to lose their company,

That I forget that our conflicts and my losses

Are not really ancient Gods, but are yet more meetings for me

With new humans, new visions, and new places in

My own new world.